_Spend enough time alone that you aren’t scared of the silence when people leave you. Better to be with no one than to be with the wrong one. Those who fly solo have the strongest wings. A good rule of thumb is that any environment that consistently leaves you feeling bad about who you are is the wrong environment. People think being alone makes you lonely, but I don’t think that’s true. Being surrounded by the wrong people is the loneliest thing in the world. You’ve got to keep control of your time, and you can’t unless you say no. You can’t let people set your agenda in life._

Refuse to be controlled or influenced by the systems of this present world. Jesus said you’re in the world, but not of the world. Your motivation in life should and must be Christ Jesus and the purpose for which He died. Don’t let your focus be on the transient things of this failing world, for none of its so-called “trends” can give you true joy.

Anything you can pay more attention to more than God has become your idol. You can't put your life in the hands of God and regret it! Stop trusting men for what only God can do. Why put in the hands of men what should be in God's hands. Don't focus on man; if a man makes you, man will destroy you. To walk with God and enjoy God, you must give Him time and patience. God uses "using" you to work on you because He wants to match your character with the destiny He has for you and that's why He's more interested in changing you than in changing your circumstances. The God that has brought you this far cannot leave you now. Your life has been fashioned and planned by God for good. Refuse to be discouraged! Sometimes, some situations that happen to you is a form of instruction if you pay attention.

God wants our lives to be void of covetousness; don’t lust after what belongs to others. Be content with what you have. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t dream or desire to attain greater levels of success; rather, it emphasizes being fulfilled and understanding that what you have is enough to get whatever else you want. But the truth is that there isn’t really anything that you don’t have. Click on the link below for previous Reality check 👇👇👇 https://thekingsnation20.blogspot.com/2022/10/reality-check_6.html