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BEFORE YOU MARRY A PASTOR, KNOW THESE FACTS




Are you thinking of marrying a pastor because they live well and big in public? You dey play, just dey play


(1) Pastors Don't live by Salaries but Calvary and Calvary is a place of suffering, so if you are materialistic, DON'T MARRY! 


(2) Pastors Don't have Privacy, because they are public figures and if you are not ready to accommodate the people, DON'T MARRY!


(3) Pastors are servants of God not masters, so they can be approached at anytime and if you are not ready to serve, DON'T MARRY!


(4) Pastors are humans and not spirits, they can make mistakes and be tempted, if you lack understanding and maturity, DON'T MARRY!


(5) Pastors are celebrities, you won't survive with your jealousy, competition, envy and over protectiveness.


(6) Pastors are accountable, if you are not responsible, DON'T MARRY.

No matter how anointed a pastor is, he can never marry an empty vessel because he will fail.


It's a great responsibility to be a pastor's wife.

The whole world is looking up to him but he is looking up to his wife.


Show me any great man you know that his wife is not doing exploits


You don't get to see your pastor's weakness but his wife does


You don't get to see that man when he cries and is devastated but his wife does


You don't get to see him struggle sometimes but his wife knows how he struggles,..


When the load is too much he rest on the shoulder of that woman.

To mention but a few.


Being a pastor's wife is a calling itself.


You can't handle it if you hate responsibility.


It's not for everyone.

Some just love to answer the name but not the responsibility.


Don't let their dressing, Good communication skill, Anointing charisma,

cuteness, Popularity, Sweet talks and acceptance deceive you. There is always a story behind every Glory.

Some stories are short, others are long but the good news is that, there is always a Glory at the end of every stories.I celebrate all those who are married to a pastor.

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