𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐑𝐄'𝐒 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐒𝐈𝐋𝐄𝐍𝐂𝐄 𝐀𝐅𝐓𝐄𝐑 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐄𝐗…

Especially when you’ve both been talking and dragging the subject for weeks...
And he’s been pressuring you, saying: “It’s nothing,” or “Let’s just be close,” or “It will even bring us closer…”

But after the sex?

𝐁𝐀𝐁𝐘, 𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐑𝐄'𝐒 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐁𝐄𝐀𝐔𝐓𝐈𝐅𝐔𝐋 𝐒𝐈𝐋𝐄𝐍𝐂𝐄.

The chat cools down.
The calls reduce.
The energy dies.
And you begin to feel it…
He’s no longer chasing.

Then comes the question you’ve avoided asking:
“𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐖𝐄?”

And his answer?

> “We’re whatever you want us to be o… but let’s just see how it goes.”

Or worse… “I’m not ready for anything serious.”

Suddenly, you feel clingy.
You feel needy.
You start wondering if you did something wrong.
And eventually… you regret it.

But you could’ve avoided all that...

If you’d just let him keep chasing.
Let him keep calling.
Let him keep showing effort.

Because one of two things will happen:

1. He’ll walk away – and that’s okay.

At least you’ll walk away whole, undamaged, and unashamed. No baggage.
You’ll know he wasn’t serious. No need to cling to someone who was never yours.

2. He’ll stay – and maybe he’ll marry you.

Because what he couldn’t get easily, he’ll value deeply.
And what he treasures, he’ll protect.

𝐏𝐑𝐄𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐈𝐓𝐀𝐋 𝐒𝐄𝐗 𝐈𝐒𝐍’𝐓 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐓𝐇 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐑𝐄𝐆𝐑𝐄𝐓.

> Hold on to your dignity.

Guard your heart.
Don’t trade commitment for momentary pleasure.

It’s better to feel lonely now and rejoice later than to feel used and discarded.

Because “A food not tasted remains untasted.”
Once curiosity is fed… chasing stops.

𝐁𝐄𝐓𝐓𝐄𝐑 𝐁𝐄 𝐒𝐀𝐅𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐍 𝐁𝐄 𝐒𝐎𝐑𝐑𝐘.
𝐘𝐎𝐔’𝐑𝐄 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐓𝐇 𝐖𝐀𝐈𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐅𝐎𝐑...... click on the link below to study the May Global Communion Service Message by Pastor Chris
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https://thekingsnation20.blogspot.com/2025/05/may-global-communion-service-with.html